I know it sounds lame, but it helps to focus on what not to do. Not everyone will agree with me. Some will say you must focus on just good things, but they’re wrong. I do believe its very practical to simply learn what to avoid.

1) First, you have to remember a line will mostly be about the non-verbals.

Even though the actual line does make a difference, you can send two exact guys with the exact line, and one will make the girl cringe. The other will make the girl smile and giggle in delight. This shows you how its about how you deliver the line that matters in the most.

2) The easiest way to come across right? Be sincere

By far nothing insults a woman more than not being real. If you walk up to a woman and you’re all fake and putting on a persona, she actually does and will get insulted. She will actually cringe and shut down if a guy is not being real. We don’t have to go deeper in female psychology, but just realize that is how it works.

Walking up to a woman and saying “wow, you are the most beautiful women I’ve seen” can be romantic, or it can be cheesy. If its true, and you really feel it in your gut, then she will be able to tell and she’ll be blown away. The line will be bad, for you, if its not genuine at that moment and place.

3) Bad lines are too direct.

I will say something now, that at first seems to be opposite of the first point. If you are “too sincere”… you will create a bad line. If you see a woman and go up to her and offer her sex or tell her exactly what you plan to do, it will most likely backfire. The problem here is not that you’re sincere. Its that you are crass, and there is a difference.

Isn’t it kind of confusing why women do this? Well, kinda. The truth is they want to avoid social shaming and labeling. If she gets with a guy too easily, she fears insults from other women. This is why she fears a man being too direct, and her being seen responding positively to it. She will actually overplay the negative response, just to make sure everyone around knows she’s “not easy”. She likes it so that she can give you a “go” signal first.

What you want to do is walk up to her as if you’re talking to an old friend. You keep it casual, social and entirely asexual. Just the very act of you approaching her, and talking to her, is enough of a signal to let her know you are showing interest. You don’t have to do it with your words.

If you have any chance at all, whatsoever, she will signal indicators of interest for more. The only exception is if she’s super socially anxious. In that case, you just need to be even more friendly and social, so she feels so at ease with you that she can let go and flirt and show that interest.

4) Too casual, too bad

Its just as bad if you show too little interest, as showing too much. It might seem like this doesn’t fit with the other point, but I’ll explain. Its all about finesse and moderation.

When you see some woman, and you’re thinking “wow she’s the most amazing woman ever”, to then go and say something indirect and pretending like she’s a random woman, will fail. It will fail because it will come across as odd and fake. Your heart is pounding at her beauty, and yet you try to pull off that you couldn’t care less who she is. Its dumb.

A great way to disappoint women is if she’s super direct and you go in being all indirect. Let’s say she says hi to you, or even is physically direct and touchy-feely… You don’t say anything to her at all, while she’s being direct… But then later you approach her faking complete unawareness of what happened before. This will piss off a woman hard. She invested all that energy to be direct with you, and then you go in pretending you’re just talking to some random grandma on the street. This is way too indirect, at the wrong time to be indirect.

If you’ve figured out this “bad pick up lines” subject, yet you areinterested on how to approach women, how to pick them up, how to attract them… I think you need to take the quiz, and get a personal report on what you need to do, in order to get more women. Just answer the questions honestly!